Funerals

Christ Church Cathedral is honored to support families and individuals who are dealing with death, and will do all we can to provide guidance and comfort along the way, and support for the loved ones after.

Families or individuals who believe that the time of death is approaching are encouraged to contact the Cathedral to make arrangements for the funeral services and to permit us to provide pastoral care in their difficult time. If desired, the clergy can work with the Funeral Director to help in the planning. Options such as holding the vigil or wake in the church can lower the cost of the funeral.

For members of the Cathedral there is no charge for a funeral. People who are not active, pledging members of the Cathedral are expected to make a donation to the Cathedral for the sexton and music provided by the organist. In general, donations are appreciated.

In the Episcopal Church, the funeral liturgy is an act of worship, and the Prayer Book states that “baptized Christians are properly buried from the church.” With different options available for burial, the Cathedral is the preferable location to hold the service, but we will participate in services in Funeral Homes and cemeteries. Services in Funeral Homes require that the coffin be closed during the service, and do not allow for the Holy Eucharist.

In preparation for the funeral, the clergy meets with the individual or family to discuss plans for the service. It is ideal that a person make arrangements for his or her own funeral ahead of time, and the Cathedral will keep the funeral plan on file. In the case when there is no pre-arranged plan, the clergy and family will meet to discuss hymns and lessons to be used, and if there are family members who plan to read or give a eulogy. We suggest that no more than three people speak during the funeral service. The family should choose pallbearers. It is preferable that the pallbearers bear or guide the coffin into the church.

In keeping with the solemnity of the occasion, pre-recorded music is not allowed during the funeral. The music chosen must be appropriate and music that is not from an Episcopal Hymnal must be approved by the clergy.